I have seen women who were desperate to attract men do all sorts of things with their looks. They may join the gym, lose weight, change their makeup. They may even hire a stylist to help them enhance their style. While all of these things are good because your outer appearance certainly gets you attention, the real way to attract men is to be aware of your own self.
Be mindful of the way you come across as well as the impact you have on the people you want to attract. Being alluring and seductive has more of a sticky effect on a man to where he feels a stronger attachment towards you. Luckily being seductive and alluring are learned skills that can give you, a way more rewarding outcome than focusing on your outer appearance alone.
The Following Are 3 of The Best Seduction Techniques
That Women Can Use to Pull a Man Towards Her
Why The Tortoise Wins The Race In The Race to Attract Men
There is something that too many women do which is completely destructive in your goal to attract someone. That something is your willingness to be open too fast. It happens all the time, you meet a guy and both of you seem to vibe each other and so you get comfortable real fast. There is nothing wrong in feeling familiar but you should always be on your toes for several reasons.
At the point of attraction, you should be in your element. You should be like a flower basking in your own sensual aroma, and energy. Allowing it to grow stronger and be the web that your man falls into. It is all a dance of weaving him in. The stronger you are able to immerse him in your sensual essence the stronger he will feel, the deeper the bond.
The problem is that most women are in a mad rush. They can’t wait to tell him everything, show him everything and give him everything as quickly as possible before they have even created any chemistry. Chemistry does not just hit you from nowhere. Chemistry is created, most of the time unconsciously. Now imagine knowing how to create that chemistry rather than waiting for chance. Even better, can you imagine being able to intensify that chemistry to such a degree that the other person can’t or doesn’t want to resist you? That is a process which cannot be rushed.
You Voice Can Be Spell-Binding
Did you know that sound can have an effect on a person’s state of mind? Loud and high pitch sounds can put us in an anxious mood. Our temperament is often matched by the level of a person’s speech. Just as well if you listen to a calm soothing voice, you will find that you too begin to feel calm. Here is a secret you can use and examine the effect when you do. When information is delivered to a person in a calm, whisper tone, we tend to be more open to listening and hearing what is being said. However, on the other hand, when information is loud and forced, we tend to close our ears and create a psychic wall.
You can use this to your advantage by training yourself to speak in a more soothing voice, a calmer tone that is more pleasing and unusual to hear. Now just take it to the next level and add more seductive talk to the mix. At first you may feel a bit shy or awkward, that’s where practice comes in.
It’s OK to take quiet private time where you can imagine yourself talking sexy and playful to the men you are trying to seduce. Over time you will get better at doing it. Your goal is to let your voice alone trigger all of his seductive juices.
Attract men by being positive. This seems so cliché, doesn’t it? We know being positive is a great thing and everyone can understand the value of it. However, being positive goes a long way with getting others to be attracted to you. Naturally you have to do some work on yourself. You may not want to look at yourself in the mirror because it can be painful to face the hard truth. Are you a downer? Do you complain a lot? When you are complaining it lowers your vibrant, radiant energy, instead what you will have is a very low vibe. And, although you may look good physically you lose out on the super alluring and magnetic effect you can have on a man.
Also, when you are being a downer, people can sense it intuitively and it just does not draw them towards you.
To attract men, make the process a journey of molding yourself into a more magnetic and alluring person. In that way your impact can be felt at a much deeper level than the surface ordinary level that is so common.